Monday, July 21, 2008

I want to resign from my job

Here I am as usual, fallen prisoner to my own crippled mind.
I am feeling lousy and I have fallen into the trap of not going to work.

I did not go to work last Tues and Wed, and have dragged myself to work on Thurs and Fri as I can't bear the thought of letting my assistant down.
I managed to stand in front of 24 people on Sat during my study launch and presented to them, confidently. I received good feedback and I felt good.

But I felt inadequte too and have been very down since yesterday.

I am at home typing. I didn't go to work again. Think HR is going to talk to me soon.
I just can't control my minds and mood. I really really feel very very depressed. It's me, but I can't get out.

I want to hurt myself, yet I don't.
I'm caught in a catch 22.

I'm afraid I may have to leave this job as I can't cope. but it seems so weak.

I am very down and my tears are stuck. I can't cry.
I really really feel horrible. want to run away.

what shd I do?

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Somewhere in Between

I'm happy.. Ok not quite happy but feel better and feeling able to cope.
I went for the interview today, they are keen to get my started on Friday.
I have to commence early due to handing over issues. My hubby and I have plans to go for  trip before I start a job, so this was quite a deliberation.

Anyhow, the company feels that it's vital to work for a couple of days as the existing employee will have a change of job role and thus will not be available when I return.
On my part, I am a perfectionist and frankly I feel the need to know the current task and assignments at hand.

I have 10 hours to make a final decision.
My Dr says go ahead. he feels I perform better with structure and expectations. And though I have my more down days in the month of April, I think i can function.

But I'm scared.

I know we need time to be ready, I get this question from my hubby " are you ready to work?" I answered... " will I ever be ready?" I lived with this horrible mood roller coaster. I am starting a new job on Friday, I am scared. I feel confident in the day " Yes! I can do it!" I shout! And now at 12 MN.... I wonder and i get fearful and i get paranoid about whether I will get a mental breakdown.
Do you get this often?
Feeling gung- ho and all out, raring to go in the day and crying in the night? Being afraid to go to work the next day?
I can't be controlled by my moods... But it controls me strongly.
I can wake up and not wanting to go to work and that's bad.
I don't want to be like this.

I wish to have a change of brain.
But I can do it right?

I need to at least give myself a chance adn learn to cope with stress and recognise trigger prevailing factors.


Monday, April 28, 2008

something to smile about


i feel slightly better. surfing the net and this catty picture is really cute!
How do you et them to cooperate?!!

love cats, they have their own mind and characteristics and they don't give a dam about what people thinks!


confused

I cut myself and I'm  not proud of it.
I just cannot cope and this red ugly thing staring at me is just ugly.

i Can't sleep and i may have to start working soon.. like maybe wed.. it's not confirmed.

i am really tired, i just want to cry and cry and stay in bed and no, i can't sleep even this morning.

when i work i really need to focus. this being a new job and all.. hubby is worried about my state of mind, that i may be stressed and not cope and may have a mental breakdown.
but when can i ever be ready?
when will another opportunity like this arises?

i'm very confused.
i need to go to the company tomorrow again for the 3rd interview.
i feel.. i haven't had enough time to rest. am i lazy? i rested since 29 march but it's not enough.
i felt that i haven't had enough me time. the time is for others. to look ok... to meet people for coffee.. to be there for them.
i need me time.

have to go out again this evening. accompanying friend for a haircut.
i just want to stay home!

Thursday, April 24, 2008

Good day till the nights

I had a good day today.
Went for an interview at 4PM. lasted till 530PM, walked around town, had some coffee and bought some korean side dishes for the fried rice my mum made.

Now, i am as usual PISSED!
I simply cannot comprehend why  just cant sleep!
it's 0235hrs. I woke up at 1000hrs, walked myself tire out and now I can't go to sleep!
I took drugs, herbs... valarian, stilnox 20mg, Dalmadorm 60mg, my dwilling stash of 500mg seroquel, xanax.. all to feed a baby, me! I often wondered why  the doses are so minute. well, all except seroquel when they 1st started me on them and i couldn't work.
I drank alcohol with my meds!
it's not working, else I would be sleeping.

i am a drug addict.
im pathethic and i dunno who to tell.

they all want me to sleep naturally. at latest 12mn. I can't! My hubby hates me using internet at night because it stimulate my brain.. i agree but i need to get this off!! i have nothing else left to eat or drink in this house that is sleep inducing unless i literally steal another 10mg of stilnox from  my mum. My hubby need to sleep today. Rested for early AM conference call.

I watched TV, re runs of America next top model loves rene but I know she lost.CSI is showing now, so tempting. i am all out of options. lie on the bed and pray, surf the net or read a book.. no concentration for the last one.
i am going high and mad from not sleeping. my Dr. is on conference and ordered damadorm, i doesn't work!

*cries*

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

I can't sleep!

i hate my f****ass self
i can't sleep
i'm irritated to the brink of going insane ( which is like strange cos I'm already am right?
i took all my pills with alcohol at see.. range of 12 am to last take 330 am.
i am wide awake!

wide dame asshole awake
i slapped myself, slam my head against the wall.
i want to jump.
its horrible
not to sleep
it may sound trivial to many but to me its horrible.
i might as well just hang in there till 6 and wake my husband up
see i want to kill  myself
my dr gave prescription for Dalmadorm 3o to collect tomorrow. it doesn't work at all.
its money spend to make all of us feel better..

i tot alcohol and drugs are not suppose to mix?
fool!

IT' 410 AAM!!!!!!!

Monday, April 21, 2008

sleep deprieved

i don't feel like writing.
I can't sleep.
want to drug  myself....

Friday, April 11, 2008

zip zap short circuit

i feel miserable.
that's too simple.. but i have no idea how else to describe how i'm feeling other than utterly miserable...
i have no desire to do anything.. all i want to do is sleep yet i have to fore myself to wake up at a certain time... otherwise i can't sleep again tonight.. and what is worse than not sleeping at night when the whole house is asleep and all you want to do is trash the house apart because of the frustrations of not sleeping?!!

i get this "short circuit" zap thing in my head and I know something bad is on it's way...
it goes ziip...zap.. like the current is out of functioning. how can I describe this to anyone sane?

i'm irritable.. i spent alot of money buying CDs, DVDs, clothes an groceries ( why do I need so much?) and now as I look at my finances, i need to start seriously to apply for a job. but I have only sent one CV out and I'm so damm proud of myself for that!

i have a confession, there were days during the week where i felt rather unsettled, agitated and I used a needle and slice the skin.. just seeing the skin tear apart makes me relaxed. just one line. I did it yesterday on my thigh and i hope no one asked where did I get the cut from....

i'm supposed to meet some friends from work tomorrow.... i just messaged them to tell them I won't be joining. I know they will get angry, mad, pissed whatever... but I just don't feel like joining them. Or seeing people....
i can't do it. i have no mood and i would be very happy to just curl up and die.. if someone will allow me to.
This will pass but i am angry, depressed, agitated and anxious.
Argh!

Saturday, April 5, 2008

a week just passed

I left my job 1 week ago...
and I slept my week away.
I can't sleep at night.. and when I finally fall into sleep, I have vivid dreams.
I can't wake up.. and when I do, it's almost 3pm.

What a waste of day.
Sent out a CV.. did some pottering around the house, gave myself a list of things to do.
Things that I had no time while I  was working.

Well.. will try to get myself out of the house for some shopping I hope.
Having an impulsive streak to buy bags and shoes! 

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

I need to do something

I haven't been writing.
Didn't feel like it. alot has happen but the words just cant seems to flow.
I have so much to bitch.. abut the unfairness of work.. but not now, another time.
My last working day was end of March. I'm free now... idling aT home. much as I want to do so, I'm obligated to meet up with my friends and to run the few errands.
And, I need to look for a job soon, which means getting my CV and certificates in order.

I'm lazy, i want to stay in bed.. yet afraid that that will be all i'm doing.
I'm tired and mildly depressed. That whole work incident has drawn the shit and anger out of me and it just made me so mad!

it's 1.30am... i can't sleep. my husband s sound asleep. I took Xanax, Dalmadorm, stillnox, lamictal and i angrily swallowed 50mg of Seroquel.
I'm still typing....

And tomorrow, I will take all energy just to get up and not waste half my day.
I need to get my CV in order but I have no mood.

Argh! Angry with myself... this procrastinator!! urgh!